Sometimes we pet owners feel a little like “can openers”, “cooks”, or “servants” to our animals. Especially cats, these mysterious and independent, sometimes strong-willed companions are less likely to do what we want them to do, they let us “beg” for love. We love them anyway, right?

You can enhance their responses by simply teaching your animals that responding to you is always associated with something “good”. Sure, you can use treats, but not all the time. Chest rubs, belly rubs, scratching behind the ears, a hug, a cuddle – that’s what you should give your animal often and plenty. Within a short time you will see the big difference – your animal will approach you on it’s own, and ask for more!

Cats and dogs respond very well to humans, but sometimes our body language can be confusing to them. Here are a few tips to make it easier for your pet to pick up what you intend to say:

Playtime:
Did you ever notice that cats crouch down with their forelegs and lift the backside up in the air when they want to play? Do the same, get down on the floor and copy this “play position”; your pet will come running!

Go vocal! Mimic a high-pitched meow – a sure sign for your cat that you are seeking her company and are ready for fun. Cats associate high tones with playfulness and fun. Most are eager to start a real “conversation” with you by responding. Talk “cat”, it’s fun!

Calming down:
Since we know that cats associate high tones with playfulness you want to avoid these now. Speak very quiet and drop your pitch. Try to draw out your words. For example a “S – i – i – i – t “ or “Sta – a – a – y” will get the message across. Works for both, cats and dogs.

Shy animals (or newcomers):
Crouch down! Being on the same level as the animal reassures him that your intentions are friendly. Don’t bend in the waist though; use your knees to lower yourself. If you bend at the waist you mimic the so called “T-posture” where an animal signals submissiveness and allows another animal to put his head on it’s shoulder to show dominance. You don’t want to appear submissive towards your dog!
Our comment: young kids should not be allowed to approach dogs, especially larger ones, in the crouch-down position. A child being on the same level as the animal might mislead the animal and trigger prey instinct. Don’t leave small children unattended when playing with dogs! See our article >> Dogs - Babies, Toddlers, Children

Look into the animal’s eyes!
Here we have to differentiate between cats and dogs.